His Secret Obsession - 7 Tips For Dating Older Woman
Hi, James Bauer Here.
Men are interested in dating older women because they are more experienced and more capable of handling relationships smoothly.
Older women are more mature, financially independent, and good lovers.
Younger men have been attracted to older women for a long time.
This happens because older women are mature, know what expect from life, and do not care about what ‘neighbors say’.
If in the past this was a big shame, today these couples are not keeping in secret anymore their relationship.
Dating older woman can be a nice and exciting experience.
If you are a person interested in dating older woman, you must think before because there are good parts and bad parts.
Some of the bad parts are that she has passed over in life and has many worries.
She has ex- boyfriends, husbands, children's, pending divorces, financial obligations, debts.
Maybe your friends will consider you a hero, but your friends will talk about you, frown upon you.
Remember that she is older than you are, has life experience, so she is often in control, and would like to manipulate you.
The good part is that she knows a lot about female- male relationships.
She knows very well what she wants and from whom and they usually looking for a man that consider like them that compatibility and open communication are more important than age.
They do not need a man to take care of them.
Older women are forthright and honest and they will tell you right off, what she thinks about you so you do not have to wonder where you stand with her.
It is necessary that you find an older woman who is interested in a younger man.
You will have bigger chances of success to win her heart.
If you already have a date with her, do not blow up.
Here are some helpful tips for attracting her.
#1. Be yourself.
She is dating you because she likes you; you offer her spontaneity and fun.
So, do not even think about impersonating someone that you are not.
#2. Take her somewhere she has never been before
Show her that you are different from other men your age.
Invite her at a jazz club, concert or an exotic restaurant.
#3. You must change the topic of your discussions.
Ask about her job, hobbies, what type of music she likes... Lady is smart, confident and mature, so do not discuss about age.
You should be confident too.
#4. Be spontaneous.
Offer her something that people her age cannot, like excitement in and out of the bed.
She is usually not looking for a serious relationship - she just wants to have fun.
However, it is true that older women can do a lot for a younger man – besides sex.
#5. Do not compare her to your ex.
This would not make her feel better with you.
The older woman can feel comfortable being with you even if you are younger and it will be at ease with your presence.
Make her feel important and show her that you are interested in her.
#6. You have to have the same intensity about life like her.
You must know that an older woman will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask what you are thinking, and this should not bother to you.
#7. Do not move too fast.
You know that she is not looking to make fast a family, because she already had one and that one failed.
Maybe she already has children’s and this will complicate things.
You should always be willing to accept the complications that come with dating an older woman.